Romance
Is Rape By Seduction
By
Adam Shane Lawes
MY DIARY DIGITAL
DATA ENTRY 16 OF 145
This diary data entry is specifically about
psychological abuse. Because in my life, I have had to endure extreme and
constant psychological abuse - mainly in the form of ridiculing, nagging and
tormenting. And for the record - psychological abuse is not only emotional and
mental abuse, but it is also a form of physical abuse because when a person is
being psychologically abused, physical harm is also done to the victim of
psychological abuse, because when a person is being psychologically abused in
whatever way, their body reacts in a physical way to the psychological abuse -
which is harmful to the body - and thus psychological abuse is also a form of
physical abuse. For example, if a person is being ridiculed, nagged or
tormented - there are 3 main reactions to these types of psychological abuse -
because a person who is being psychologically abused in one or more of these
ways could feel anxiety (which will so often increase as the psychological
abuse increases) - or a person could feel angry (which will also so often
increase as the psychological abuse increases) - or a person could feel a mix
of alternating anxiety and anger to the psychological abuse that they are
receiving (which will also often increase as the psychological abuse
increases). And if a person is feeling anxious when being psychologically
abused, then they will obviously be in an emotional and mental state of feeling
extremely uncomfortable and nervous - and in addition to this, their body will
react in a physical manner to the psychological abuse that is causing the
anxiety by a series of physical reactions to the uncomfortable and nervous
state of anxiety, such as stomach pains and stomach problems, vertigo, nausea
and migraine headaches. And if a person is feeling angry when being
psychologically abused, then they will obviously be in an emotional and mental
state of being extremely tense and worked up - and in addition to this, their
body will react in a physical manner to the psychological abuse that is causing
the anger by a series of physical reactions to the tense and worked up state of
anger, such as stress, migraine headaches, and pressure on the heart as the
very tense state of anger causes their heart to constrict and go into overtime
as it has to pump blood harder around the body because the person has been made
angry by psychological abuse. And the 3 main forms of psychological abuse that
I have had to endure way too often in my life, which are ridiculing, nagging
and tormenting - all started out as resulting in extreme anxiety for a long
time, especially when I was in that last foster home from the age that I was 11
years old to 16 years old - and which by the end of that horrible 6 years, that
constantly increasing anxiety that resulted from the constant psychological
abuse from my alcoholic stepmother and her two children, eventually turned from
extreme anxiety to extreme anger. And in terms of those 3 main forms of
psychological abuse - which are ridiculing, nagging and tormenting - people who
do those 3 main forms of psychological abuse are motivated in each case by
specific motives. For example people who ridicule are insecure people, because
ridiculing is a specific sign of insecurity in the ridiculer - and people who
ridicule do so because they are trying to belittle and make another person feel
insecure to wrongfully try and escape their own feelings of insecurity, instead
of analysing and dealing with their own personal insecurity problem and not
going around trying to make other people feel insecure by ridiculing their
victims. However, despite ridiculing being a very serious form of psychological
AND physical abuse, it is not appropriately acknowledged as such and dealt with
severely enough by the law. In terms of the form of abuse that is nagging, it
is a form of abuse that is done by naggers primarily because they are insecure
people who find it difficult to accept difference in other people because they
wrongfully believe that other people should be the same as them, so people who
nag go around wrongfully nagging other people to be more like them and do what
the nagger wrongfully thinks other people should do. And people who are the
victims of nagging feel emotions such as anxiety, annoyance, irritability and
anger. However despite nagging being a very serious form of psychological AND
physical abuse, it is not acknowledged seriously enough and dealt with severely
enough by the law. In terms of the form of abuse that is tormenting, it is a
form of abuse that is done by tormentors because the tormentor is maliciously
and wrongfully trying to gain happiness out of tormenting another person with
what they do not like - and the reason that the tormentor is doing this is
because they are unhappy with themselves and their own life, so the tormentor
goes around tormenting other people to try and annoy and make other people
unhappy, and by doing so, the tormentor gains some kind of malicious temporary
unhappiness by tormenting other people. And people who are the victims of
tormenting feel emotions such as anxiety, annoyance, irritability and anger.
However despite tormenting being a very serious form of psychological AND
physical abuse, it is not acknowledged seriously enough and dealt with severely
enough by the law. And because these forms of psychological abuse - which are
also forms of physical abuse - are not dealt with seriously and severely enough
by the law, then people who are the victims of ridiculers, tormentors and
naggers will often be made to look bad by either being made to look and feel
awkward and insecure, or angry and psychotic when they eventually lose their
temper at the ridiculer and/or nagger and/or tormentor - and getting the victim
to feel and look awkward and insecure, and/or lose their temper and be angry
and psychotic, is also a sneaky tactic of people who ridicule, nag and torment.
So it is blatantly obvious that the law must be changed to deal with the
horrible, harmful and abusive behaviour of ridiculers, naggers and tormentors
whose behaviour is a form of psychological AND physical abuse. But until it
does, unfortunately people who have been abused and pushed over the edge by
ridiculers and/or naggers and/or tormentors - have to take the law into their
own hands to stop the ridiculer and/or nagger and/or tormentor from abusing
them.
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Adam Shane Lawes
