DIARY DATA ENTRY 17

Romance Is Rape By Seduction
 By Adam Shane Lawes

MY DIARY DIGITAL DATA ENTRY 17 OF 145

In terms of my last diary data entry 16, if a person is being psychologically abused, and because psychological abuse is not seriously and severely dealt with enough by the law, then there are 3 main options that a person can choose from as a reaction and way to try and deal with the psychological abuse that is not properly, seriously and severely dealt with enough by the law. Firstly a person can become a recluse and hide to try and escape the psychological abuse. However being a recluse and hiding is obviously difficult if one is forced to be around other people, especially psychologically abusive people, such as if they are still too young to leave home and/or school, and/or they are in a work environment. In addition to this, although being a recluse is good at times as it allows a person to think, analyse deeply, and also offers the necessary alone time to do their artwork, the negative aspect of being a recluse is that a person is limited in other aspects and possibilities of life that they can experience - such as going out and meeting cool and interesting people. However in this context, it must also be stated that the internet and social networking sites have obviously allowed people to have in-depth and intense friendships, relationships and forms of interaction whilst still being a recluse and not leaving their room - and often these forms of social interaction on the internet are more intense, in-depth and better than those formed in person, because you can do so from the focused comfort of your own room - So if you prefer and are fortunate enough to have found a way to remain a recluse and create your own world the way you want it to be within your room, then other than not physically going out and also having the opportunities for physical intimacy through not going out - (however in this context it must also be stated that opportunities for physical intimacy may also be found through social networking sites) - then you are not going to miss out on anything from being a recluse, and you can also obviously specifically choose the people you interact with through the selective power of social networking sites on the internet. The second major way to deal with psychological abuse if you are forced not to be a recluse and/or don't won't to be a recluse is to be a martyr - However being a martyr is often very difficult to deal with for any long term period because you will continue to be psychologically abused - and more than likely the psychologically abusive people will become more psychologically abusive to you if they know that they can get away with their psychological abuse because you have chosen to behave like a martyr - and being a martyr also allows the people who are psychologically abusive to wrongfully get away with their wrongful and cruel behaviour. So being a martyr is not a practical way of dealing with psychological abuse as it is a continual state of suffering and being hurt by psychologically abusive people, and the psychologically abusive people are also able to continually thrive and get away with their wrongful and cruel psychologically abusive behaviour. And finally the third major way to deal with psychological abuse, no matter what your way of life, is to use whatever means are necessary and required to stop the psychologically abusive people from psychologically abusing you - And some of the tactics to use against psychologically abusive people is to use art as a weapon and behavioural analysis as a weapon to stop the abuse from psychologically abusive people. And unfortunately, as I emphasised in my last diary data entry number 16 - because the law does not seriously and severely deal with psychologically abusive people, sometimes extreme tactics must be used against psychologically abusive people, and you must engage in psychological warfare and whatever other warfare is required and necessary to stop the psychologically abusive people from abusing you.

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